Oh yes, I'm asking you!! :)
So tell me,
What's your sexual orientation?
If you're not heterosexual:
Did you come out?
Have you planed to do it (if you haven't already)?
How will you do it, or how did you do it?
How did your family react? (if you've already done it)
How did your friends react?
Are you proud of yourself or you still have difficulty to assume it?
If you're heterosexual:
Do you have gay friends?
What do you think of them?
What activities are you not doing with them that you do with your straight friends?
What activities are you doing with them that you're not doing with your straight friends?
"What about you?" you'll ask. Well. My story was not really a tough one. At first, I told my best friend. At the time, she said she didn't care. And I believed her. She told no one. I was happy. One day, I told my other girl friends of the moment. They said it was okay. But, 3 days later, they came to me and they said "Sometimes, you're not cool with us, we prefer not hanging with you anymore!" Yeah sure...
What a surprise, few days later, people begin to ask me if it was true that I was lesbian. I answered no. Why? First, I wasn't really assuming. And second, at the moment I thought I was bi. (I later realised I am lesbian.) I answered no for a long time.
I stayed with the only girl that wanted of me. Few months later, she presented me another girl. We weren't really close, but I started eating with her and her friends. I finally became closer to some of her friends. I was happy with them, they knew about me being lesbian, and they REALLY didn't care. Today I'm really close with one of them we're best friends since soon a year. I told my mother 2~3 months after the first girls ruined our "friendship". She cried 'cuz she said that people at school were going to make me a horrible life. I told her they already had their wave of laughing and insulting. About a week later, everyone in my close family knew it. They all accepted it really well. I think I was lucky.
As I said, I denied at school for a long time. Until I realised that they were not going to control my life and who I'd be. I started assuming. It closed their mouths. Since this school year, everyone knows that it wouldn't give them anything to laugh or insult me or whatever about it, 'cuz they know I don't give a damn about it.
On the May 17th, international day against homophobia, I wore that T-Shirt at school:
Let me say that after that day, they all understood I was the official "Young Lesbian That Assumes Herself All The Way" They knew it before, but maybe not that much, and maybe not everyone.
That's about it for my story. If you have any questions don't be shy and ask!! And don't forget to answer my questions!!
With Love, Lesbii Amy


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